It is normal that as humans, we observe the outside part than the inside.
We tend to worry about other people character and see most of their actions and other stuff as the cause of our predicament.
We complain "if he/she were more loving and caring", "if my children were not stubborn", or "if my parent gives more money", this means our expectation from other peoples character to make us happy and comparison to others leads us to be reactive or disappointment.
People tend to see happiness in their jobs, spouse, family, and so on. But they forget that it starts from inside. The ideal person you want others to be should start from you. You can make others happy if you are. You can't give what you don't have.
The common saying "Be the change you want others to be". So why not build that happy, joyful, loving, caring person by learning positivity. It is an inside process before you influence the outside.
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